First ask yourself, why do you want to wean your child from his/her pacifier? If it's interfering with your child's ability to interact, talk, or play with
others then yes I would agree with you it may be a good idea to phase it out.
But if he/she is using it only to fall asleep or to soothe himself/herself when his/she's upset,
then in my opinion he is using it to a good end.
Like many parents, you may be concerned about the impact of
pacifier use on your child's teeth, but pediatric orthodontists report that
regular use of a pacifier before age 4 doesn't cause dental problems or
misaligned teeth.
At preschool your son/daughter sees that the other kids don't use a
pacifier so that more than likely why he/she has given it up on his own there.
Here are some helpful steps to wean your child from the pacifier:
Step 1 - Help him/her find other ways to calm himself. Many children use a security blanket or toy
for comfort. If your child doesn't have this already, you can help him develop
one by choosing a blanket, stuffed animal. Have it sit on your lap or your child's as you read together, and set it next to him as he/she eats and when you cuddle
before bedtime.
Step 2 - Offer
your child the opportunity to trade in the pacifier for a big-boy toy. If he
doesn’t want too just yet don’t worry, it was worth a try.
Step 3 - Dip the
pacifier in something that doesn't taste so great, like pickle juice, so your
son/daughter will look forward to it less.
Step 4 - Taking
the pacifier away gradually is the best way to go. Don't get into a power
struggle over it or your child may hold onto it more fiercely. When your child
wants the pacifier during the day, let him/her have it for a minute or two and then
offer other ways to help him calm down, a hug from you, snuggling with his
blanket or teddy, or reading a book together.
Step 5 - Reduce
the time you let him/her have it until he doesn't use it at all.
Step 6 - Taking
the pacifier away at bedtime will probably be more difficult. Perhaps let him/her use it during reading time and while you're rocking or singing but not when he
goes to sleep. Then gradually lessen the time he/she uses it. It’s a long process and you need to be
patient and calm.
Step 7 – When
your child is ready to give up his pacifier altogether, it’s a great idea to have
a pacifier going-away party, as special rituals can ease difficult transitions.
Gather them up, put them in a special place (such as a box you've decorated
together), sing some good-bye songs, include all your children and then put the
box away.
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